What happens if my ex cohabitates with a new partner?

Cohabitation and Spousal Support in North Dakota

In North Dakota, the law provides specific guidelines on how cohabitation with a new partner can affect spousal support or alimony. These guidelines are outlined in the North Dakota Century Code.

Impact of Cohabitation on Spousal Support

According to North Dakota Century Code 14-05-24.1(10), if the spouse receiving support has been habitually cohabiting with another individual in a relationship analogous to a marriage for one year or more, the court may terminate spousal support. This termination is not automatic; it requires an order of the court based on a preponderance of the evidence.

The key point here is that the cohabitation must be habitual and in a relationship analogous to a marriage. This means that occasional or casual relationships may not qualify for this provision. The court will consider factors such as the nature and extent of the relationship, the length of the cohabitation, and the financial implications of the cohabitation.

Procedure for Terminating Spousal Support

If a payor spouse believes that the recipient spouse is cohabitating with a new partner in a manner that meets the criteria outlined in the statute, they can petition the court to terminate the spousal support. The court will then conduct a hearing to determine whether the conditions for termination have been met.

The payor spouse bears the burden of proof in these proceedings. They must provide evidence that the recipient spouse has been cohabitating with another individual in a relationship analogous to a marriage for one year or more. This evidence can include shared living expenses, shared responsibilities, and other factors that demonstrate a marriage-like relationship.

Exceptions and Rebuttals

It’s important to note that the termination of spousal support due to cohabitation is not absolute. The recipient spouse can rebut the presumption of cohabitation by demonstrating that the relationship is not analogous to a marriage. For instance, they may show that they maintain separate finances, do not share household responsibilities, or do not present themselves as a couple to the public.

Furthermore, even if the court finds that the recipient spouse is cohabitating with a new partner, it may still decide to continue spousal support based on other factors. These factors can include the financial needs and resources of each party, the duration of the marriage, the standard of living established during the marriage, and the age and health of the parties.

In conclusion, if your ex-spouse cohabitates with a new partner, it may lead to the termination of spousal support under North Dakota law. However, this termination is not automatic and depends on the specific circumstances of the cohabitation and the discretion of the court. It is advisable to consult with a legal professional to understand how these laws apply to your specific situation.