Can both parents share custody if they live in different states?

Shared Custody Across State Lines

In the context of divorce, child custody is a critical issue that often requires careful legal navigation. When parents live in different states, the situation becomes even more complex. However, it is possible for parents living in different states to share custody, but it is subject to certain conditions and legal provisions. This article will explore the legal aspects of shared custody across state lines, with a specific focus on North Dakota law.

Jurisdiction in Child Custody Cases

The first issue to consider in interstate child custody cases is jurisdiction, or which state’s courts have the authority to make decisions about the child’s custody. According to the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA), which North Dakota has adopted, the child’s “home state” generally has jurisdiction over custody matters. The home state is defined as the state where the child has lived with a parent or a person acting as a parent for at least six consecutive months immediately before the commencement of a child custody proceeding (North Dakota Century Code § 14-14.1-01).

However, North Dakota courts can also assume jurisdiction under certain conditions, as outlined in North Dakota Century Code § 14-14.1-12. These conditions include situations where the child and at least one parent have a significant connection with North Dakota, and substantial evidence is available in the state concerning the child’s care, protection, training, and personal relationships.

Shared Custody Across State Lines

Once jurisdiction is established, the question of shared custody across state lines can be addressed. North Dakota law does not explicitly prohibit shared custody when parents live in different states. However, the feasibility of such an arrangement will depend on various factors, including the distance between the parents’ residences, the child’s age and needs, and the parents’ ability to cooperate and communicate effectively.

North Dakota Century Code § 14-09-06.2 provides that the court shall award the parental rights and responsibilities for the care of the child to the child’s parents, unless the court finds that such an arrangement is not in the best interests of the child. The court will consider all relevant factors when making this determination, including the ability of the parents to communicate and cooperate with each other and to make joint decisions about the child.

Moving the Child’s Residence

If a parent with primary or equal residential responsibility for a child wishes to move the child’s primary residence to another state, they must obtain an order from the court or the consent of the other parent, as per North Dakota Century Code § 14-09-07. The court will consider various factors when deciding whether to allow the move, including the potential benefits of the move, the impact on the child’s relationship with the non-moving parent, and the feasibility of preserving the relationship between the child and the non-moving parent through suitable parenting time arrangements.

Conclusion

In conclusion, while it is legally possible for parents living in different states to share custody, the practicality of such an arrangement will depend on various factors. It is crucial for parents in this situation to seek legal advice to understand their rights and responsibilities and to navigate the complex legal landscape of interstate child custody.